Sunday, April 7, 2013

Am I Choosing my Phone Over my Friends?-9

I really enjoyed this video. The speaker made some excellent points on face-to-face communication versus texting and social media. Like I mentioned in my post about the article, I am a huge people person. I like constantly being surrounded by people. The speakers point about feeling lonely is something I can relate to. When I lay down at night and can’t fall asleep I turn to my phone for companionship as I check all of my social media sites. It’s crazy to think that we are choosing our phones over real friendships. We all strive to have great friendships and a great relationship but if we are always connected on our phones how are we ever going to achieve that? I am speaking to myself when I say these things because I am guilty of choosing my phone over real authentic community and conversations with others.

 Technology is becoming more advance every day. It is changing the way we communicate to people and how we view friendships, maybe even the very nature of friendships. For me, I will always prefer face-to-face conversations. I am a huge people person and I love being surrounded by people all the time. I only text people when I feel like it’s not important enough to call them. For people who are shy, like mentioned in the article, Facebook could be something that is beneficial for helping them come out of their shell and meet new people. Facebook has created a way for us to be friends without ever really talking to each other in person. Facebook has also created a way for us to keep in touch with past friendships or long distance friendships. In that way, it is changing the very nature of friendships and how we can keep in touch.

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